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R ebecca Ammon
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March 22, 2010
Swinger by Trocandher I am a swinger and a swinger club promoter. Constantly immersed in the swinger community, I meet alot of wonderful people, but also some of the not so wonderful.
My wife and I have been active in the lifestyle for about four years. We started
as most did, talking about it and wanting to explore different fantasies. Lucky for me, my wife had a very
active interest in the lifestyle. It started by us frequenting an area strip club, Deja Vu to be
exact while passing by the old Pleasure Palace. As we were going to the strip clubs, my wife noticed she
recieved alot of "special attention" from the dancers. My wife has wonderful natural breasts and most of
the dancers thought they were the greatest things since saline and silicone. And, anyone who has been to
one of these establishments with a woman, I highly reccomend this by the way, knows that the dancers do
"things" for women during private dances that men could only hope to have done for their $30 dollar
donation. It's wonderful. Through this, my previously sheltered wife, found her bi-curiousness. This
eventually lead to us finding the Pleasure Palace (now Eyz Wide Shut).
As the male half of the couple, I actually make up NONE of the rules. Well,
that's a bit of an exaggeration, but the point is that in every aspect of MY marriage my wife has a huge amount
of influence on decisions made in OUR vanilla lives. When it comes to the lifestyle, however, she holds 90% of
the influence. When we first started in the lifestyle we tried a lot of different things, full swap, soft swap,
2 guys, 2 girls, girl only, etc. Through this experimentation, we figured out what direction we wanted to
go.
I admit that along the way, I have took one for the team on a couple of
occasions, however, I can't say she has. Maybe drunk guys will fuck anything. At the end of the day/night my
wife likes women more than men. She is more comfortable "playing" with women. I love that she is like that, can
you blame me? Sometimes I get to join and sometimes I don't. But I get to see what most men dream of. This the
lifestyle great.....
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