May 17, 2011

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Soccer mom confidential: I'm a swinger

I am just your average, quintessential soccer mom for the most part. I drive my kids to school, go to football games and band concerts, and work in a professional office environment. The difference between me and most other "typical" moms: I am a swinger.  And even after two years of confessing my deep dark secret to the world you might be surprised that you still probably couldn't pick me out of the crowd on a Friday night football game.  Why?  I am just a regular person like you. 

My husband and I  have been living this lifestyle for more than ten years, but the idea of the practice has drifted around the relationship for longer. Parties with flashing, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and finally the graduation to partner swapping was the surprisingly easy progression for us. This type of lifestyle was never meant to be a fix for anything missing in our marriage, but an outlet for pent up desires we were honest enough to share with each other.

The simple fact of swinging is that I can have my cake and eat it too! No need to cheat, I have permission to have sex with others.

We have swinger friends that we have sex with, "Vanilla" (non-swinger) friends that we neither have sex nor discuss swinging with, and swinger friends that we do not have sex with. Being a swinger doesn’t mean that you will sleep with anyone, but it does mean that you are open-minded to the possibility.

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