November 7, 2011

Sexy or Arrogant?

Let's face it, some men are intimidated by confident women.  They will attempt to label them as arrogant, stuckup or even bitches because they walk around with head held high. 

Last week John Powers, a contributor to my site, wrote an article about breast size.  He eluded to the belief that women with large breasts are just arrogant.  He further used a friends with big breasts as an example.  She could not possibly be sexy with her big belly in his opinion.

What John fails to realize is that while some women are arrogant, more are probably lacking self confidence and attempt to cover that by portraying themselves as uber confident. 

I grew up a shy girl - this is totally true.  It wasn't until I was almost 29 that I found the courage to step out of my comfort zone and become the woman I am today - confident, sexy and sometimes arrogant.  This confidence occured long before my breasts swelled to their current size of 34DD.  I found myself through improving myself.  Eventually my changes led to breast enhancement which only rounded out my curvacious figure.

The swinger lifestyle has certainly helped my confidence.  The realization that men (outside of my husband) found me attractive and even sexy is an ego boost for anyone.  While I still find myself slipping back to my former self and can't quite find the means to glow, I still will carry my head high and breasts out exuding myself as a overtly sexual being.

If my confidence offends you, if my large breasts are too much for you to handle then screw you, you aren't good enough for me anyway.

1. Totally agree. I also was very shy and insecure. With the help of my hubby, the lifestyle and my lucious 36D's, I do walk with my head up high. If you don't like it turn away cuz here I come.
2. A confident woman is sexy as hell. That is the only kind of woman that has the strength of personality to handle my own, sometimes over confident and cocky, attitude. It is what I love best about my wife. She isn't afraid to stand up to me and speak her mind. Give us a call sometime. We need to go out for drinks... ;)
3. John is a dick. I don't know why you have him as a contributor. I thought his post was a slam on you.
4. very sexy
5. You tell em girl! A woman should never be ashamed of where she came from, where she has been and who she has become. We should encourage and appreciate self confidence in each other! There's nothing more beautiful than a woman who understands her importance in this world!!
6. Confident is "hey, I'm sexy". Arrogant is "hey, I'm sexy and you're not" .
7. Confidence that is rooted in a calm sense of self assurance is appealing. On the other hand, false bravado can be obnoxious. I think a person who is comfortable in their own skin yet who is not afraid to admit their vulnerabilities without constantly trying to "fish for compliments" through self criticism.
   

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