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R ebecca Ammon
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Conversations about
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February 14, 2010
My
Rules
by Anymous
Our main rule, other than condoms, is: can we talk BEFORE we get
naked? Unfortunately some, you've encountered the type, just want to fuck. You are just another "notch on
the bedpost" to them. Sorry, I'd like to at least know your name if you're going to have my dick in your
mouth. You can get a sense of a couple by talking to them. We are not talking solving world peace or
finally understanding super conductors at room temperature, but just small talk.. Do you have kids? What
is your NAME? How long have you been together. Just minor stuff, but you can find out a lot about a
couple. If they can't form a complete sentence -- or as we have unfortunately encountered once -- one
partner does ALL the talking ( someone is taking one for the team ) you can have an enjoyable time, or
avoid a disappointing evening.
Kissing? Kissing is a must. I agree with your intimacy rule -- if
it is too intimate to kiss, then a good screwing is right out. If it is difficult for you to kiss me,
then it will equally difficult for me to get you off.
Anal? Well anal breaks down to three categories (and goes for both
male and female)...
1. Probing during oral sex. Usually good to ask permission first.
A little
kindness goes a long way later.
2. Rim licking (see #1) ..
3. Dick in ass. (see #1) ..
Our two other big rules are: in the same room -- it really
heightens the pleasure of both --; and both have to agree.
Once we have decided on a couple, then once we are in the same
room further negotiations can occur (three way, bi, etc.,) -- if we are being watched by a group, almost
every on premise club we've been to disallows male/male contact.
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