Rebecca-October 2009

The freaks were out tonight Attending a swingers Halloween party is always an event to remember. The creative costumes, the lack of costumes, and the atmosphere always makes for a good time. CONTINUE READING....

Can I have sex at lunch? All swingers have their own rules. Rules are what make swinging doable (pun intended). Soccer Dad and I have gone somewhat past the basic swinger lifestyle.. ..CONTINUE READING....

Swinger lifestyle: are you in or out of the closet? I like to keep my lifestyle somewhat quiet. I don’t make it common practice to share this part of my life with many. Those who do know I am a swinger probably know me pretty well in life too and are very trusted (although mistakes are made at times). CONTINUE READING....

Dear stalkers, stop requesting sex over facebook Since I started writing this blog, I ‘ve come to accept that some of you out there in internet-land aren’t entirely normal. CONTINUE READING....

What is your type? Does anyone really have a type? I have always said that my type was a male 20 something with blond hair, blue eyes, skinny, and a bit on the geeky side. CONTINUE READING....

Would you like to have sex with me? How do you feel about having sex with me? Essentially when a swinger asks another couple out they are requesting sex. I’m sure not all swingers will agree with my statement, but when I ask another couple out for drinks I really mean do you want to have sex with me. CONTINUE READING....

Book Review: Would you like to sleep with my wife? Former Tampa resident Tom Kelly details his journey into the swinger world as a single male in Would you like to sleep with my wife. Kelly’s adventure begins after leaving an unhappy relationship with a fanatic girlfriend in attempt to quell his desire to be constantly surrounded by naked women. CONTINUE READING....

No rubber equals no pleasure I am what many may call a protection queen. If you want to put your man parts into my girl parts you better be covered. It’s a very simple rule–no sex without a condom. CONTINUE READING....

What noises are coming from your bedroom? I’ve been in a few bedrooms over the years and I’m always amazed by the sounds that come out of overly excited sex partners, either with me or in the bed next to me. CONTINUE READING....

Swingers: what are they really looking for? I guess you could call Soccer Dad and I seasoned swingers, as we’ve been involved in the lifestyle for more than eight years. But, even with this vast amount of experience I still don’t always know what swingers are looking for. CONTINUE READING....

Do you sleep with strangers too? I am what some would call a seasoned swinger. I have been around the swinging lifestyle for the better part of eight years. But no matter how many dates I go on there is always something new to experience. CONTINUE READING.....

Communicating in the swinger world I’ve had many emails asking how to successfully approach other swingers. The answer isn’t the same for everyone. Approaching a stranger for sex is awkward at best, let alone incredibly intimidating. What if they say no? What if they don’t like you? How do you know if they like you? CONTINUE READING....

Can I have sex at lunch? All swingers have their own rules. Rules are what make swinging doable (pun intended). Soccer Dad and I have gone somewhat past the basic swinger lifestyle.. ..CONTINUE READING....

Dear stalkers, stop requesting sex over facebook Since I started writing this blog, I ‘ve come to accept that some of you out there in internet-land aren’t entirely normal. CONTINUE READING....

What is your type? Does anyone really have a type? I have always said that my type was a male 20 something with blond hair, blue eyes, skinny, and a bit on the geeky side. CONTINUE READING....

No rubber equals no pleasure I am what many may call a protection queen. If you want to put your man parts into my girl parts you better be covered. It’s a very simple rule–no sex without a condom. CONTINUE READING....

What noises are coming from your bedroom? I’ve been in a few bedrooms over the years and I’m always amazed by the sounds that come out of overly excited sex partners, either with me or in the bed next to me. CONTINUE READING....

Swingers: what are they really looking for? I guess you could call Soccer Dad and I seasoned swingers, as we’ve been involved in the lifestyle for more than eight years. But, even with this vast amount of experience I still don’t always know what swingers are looking for. CONTINUE READING....

Do you sleep with strangers too? I am what some would call a seasoned swinger. I have been around the swinging lifestyle for the better part of eight years. But no matter how many dates I go on there is always something new to experience. CONTINUE READING.....