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R ebecca Ammon
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November 2011
Thoughts are swirling my head. I considering doing something totally out of
character with this situation. I mean, what the heck it's my chance to be naughty and no one would ever
know. I don't ever have to see this guy again.
It seems that every couple plays by a different set of rules. Whether you are
a full swap couple or only participate in soft swap play, your rules are an important part that outlines
your lifestyle. Who is in charge of your rules?
The definition of sexy is different for everyone. Some may define sexiness as a physical trait. The way a woman looks or dresses. The color of her hair or the shoes that she wears. Others will determine sexiness by an act or an air of confidence a woman displays. One person cannot write an all encompassing definition of the word because so many view the term so vastly different.
Breaking the Rules It came as no surprise when my beautiful wife Angie told me she was hot for one of the guys at work. She has had many interests at work and can be a terrible flirt and tease, but has never taken it past sitting on laps, and grinding hips. She works in a male dominated profession and is a hot and sexy woman in any setting. She gets plenty of attention, and I encourage her to enjoy flirtation and compliments.
10 Secrets: I've been around the swinger block a time or two. I've encountered many things that I have never ever spoken. Some things just aren't meant to be said. Maybe because they are embarrassing or just to avoid any hurt feelings. But today is the last day I will keep those secrets, embarassing moments or funny occurences inside.
by Anonymous Angie and I had been experimenting in the lifestyle for a few years. Along the way we met a few couples that we became real friends. Kay and Steve were one of those couples for us. We met them a couple of years earlier and always enjoyed spending time, both vanilla and not-so-vanilla with them. Unfortunately we live about two hours away from them and with all four of us working we don’t get to see them nearly enough.
Can you really be friends Swingers tend to have multiple fuck buddies. We go out, meet new people and have sex. The fuck buddy stigma doesn't come into effect until the swingers meet and engage in sex on multiple occasions and the relationship translates into your vanilla life as well. This tends to be where all the complications begin.
by Anonymous Our first venture into the lifestyle was a trip to Desire. We had fantasized and talked about lifestyle situations for our entire relationship, but we had never taken the plunge.
Would Ashton and Demi Considering the divorce rate of the rich and famous of Hollywood, it comes as no surprise that Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore are joining the ranks of the divorced. It must be terribly difficult to maintain a monogamous relationship with all that fame and money not to mention the time apart with thousands of adoring fans clamoring for your attention wherever you go.
by Anonymous We had been to a few house parties and club nights recently where Angie just wasn’t quite feeling it. We met some nice people and while she had enjoyed the nights out, she wasn’t making a connection with the guys like she wanted. She certainly wasn’t “taking one for the team” but I was connecting with the women we were meeting better than she was.
I've been around enough women to know that we make mistakes too. Whether it's girl/girl or girl/guy the same rules should apply when getting busy. Gals: find out if you are doing some of these things that just drive men nuts (and not in a good way).
by Anonymous For my birthday we went out to our local swinger’s club. It wasn’t a particularly busy night, but there was dancing and new people to meet.......Ann is a beautiful “willowy” thin redhead with very fair skin. A beautiful black female with skin the color of milk chocolate and huge brown eyes leaned over the back of the couch and introduced herself as Raquel to my wife.
Even after nearly 10 years of swinging, I still find that some men forget the basic etiquette of pleasing a woman during sex. Occasionallythey need to be reminded of the do's and don't's of getting down to business. While I'm sure women do just as many things to piss off men in bed, as a woman, I primarily have sex with men, so they will receive the brunt of my complaints.
This night we arrive at the party with a few couples on our mind. At that time we typically would first meet couples online within one of the many swinger dating websites out there. After getting drinks we quickly found (or were found) a couple we had chatting with earlier. The couple quickly introduced us to many of their friends.
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Anonymous
In late August we were at Paradise Lakes where we had been going for about a year. We love laying in the sun naked and
certainly enjoy being around other naked people, but we had never played there.
by Anonymous The evening started out as most have for us. We decided we would go out for a quiet dinner followed by some adult time. We chose to visit a club where we could have a few drinks to relax, dance, and then leave the rest to chance. One thing we never do is go out with any expectations; that surely would lead to disappointment.
Let's face it, some men are intimidated by confident women. They will attempt to label them as arrogant, stuckup or even bitches because they walk around with head held high.
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Our lives are full of firsts. First steps, words, dates and our first sexual experiences are universal, shared amongst most of humanity. A first lifestyle experience isn’t so universal but many times is a turning point in ones life and also a fun story to share. |
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