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R ebecca Ammon
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Conversations about
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July 2011
Who says monogamy is dead? I meet 1/3 of the above definition. Does that mean I am in a monogamous relationship? Yes and no.
Finding your play partners Approaching a stranger for sex is awkward at best, let alone incredibly intimidating. What if they say no? What if they don't like you? How do you know if they like you?
Everyone seems to have their own definition of what is a swinger. To the vanilla world a man who sleeps around is called a 'player' and a woman who does the same is called a 'whore'. But what about a couple who plays around - either together or separate. Some would consider those individuals cheaters.
When was the last time you read a good bedtime story? I have several books sitting on my nightstand waiting for me, but somehow my recent selections have just put me to sleep. I like a late night book to draw me in and at some point turn me on. When you first touch lips, the first taste of what the evening might be is sealed in that first kiss. I have experienced a lot of first kisses. It's one of the big draws to the lifestyle. I get to feel that rush inside, the butterflies swirling around everytime I encounter someone new. How could that ever be considered bad?
Swingers: Isn't it a team sport? I started off in this lifestyle with my husband. The idea of swinging to me is partner swapping. We each get to try out someone new, feel that excitement of someone else being interested in you, and still maintain the relationship between us. I could describe swinging better described as having your cake and eating it too.
It's 10:00 AM and you are waking up in a strange bed. You squint your eyes from the sunlight beaming through the window. Finally you roll over to feast your eyes on your beautiful fuck buddy from last night and discover a monster.
It's been quite an evening of flirting, sexual innuendos, and finally the hookup. Everyone seems to be having a good time. But then after everyone is finished and it's time to get dressed what happens now?
It's the heat of the moment, you are about to burst, where do you cum? I have found each guy is different depending on the woman he is with and the situation he is in. The debate on where to cum and what is respectable seems to differ man to man and woman to woman.
How do you feel about all those noises that sneak up during sex? I don't mean the OOO's and AHHH's of pleasure. I'm talking about those other noises. The one's that make us embarrassed. It's happened to all of us, you are lost in the moment and suddenly a squeak. Was it the bed squeaking?
What is the meaning of sex? Find out what the readers think sex is.....
A few weeks ago I was talking to a coworker about his newest girlfriend. He said that she has a butt (unlike his X that was ultra skinny/boney) and he easily said that it doesn't bother him. She had even recently gained a few pounds and doesnt seem to care. He continued on to say I guess its time to forgo the - thought of being with a beauty queen and find my best friend for life.
Swinging: How much is too much? It's Saturday and we are deciding where to go, what to do. Do we head out to the local swingers club or do we have date night, just the two of us? This weekend I chose the latter despite the texted invites for private play and tweeters encouragement for a late night rendevous in a not so private place.
Anna Paquin came out as bisexual to her fans about a year ago, but was it really a big secret? Even with her marriage to fellow True Blood star Stephen Moyer, Paquin admits in the upcoming Transformation issue of V magazine that she never was aked about her sexuality. Never asked? What? Some stars are hounded right out of the closet confirming something that was really never necessary for any of us to know. June 2011 |
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