Swinger websites: a review  Since many of you have expressed interest in how to jump into the swinger lifestyle, I’ve put together a few reviews of swinger websites that I’m a member of.

Dirty little swinger secrets (NSFW)  The word swinger sounds dirty all by itself. For many, this  lifestyle conjures stereotypes of swingers engaging in all types of uninhibited behaviors. Many of the assumptions non-swingers have about the lifestyle are true,......  

Are you having an affair and don’t know it?  Swingers are often stereotyped as having lascivious affairs, but depending on what you consider cheating, almost everyone is having some type of affair.  CONTINUE READING....

 Tips for a successful swingers date I’ve been on many swinger dates, good and bad. For me a good date involves drinks, conversation, laughter, and  hot sex. But, how do you have a successful swinger’s date every time?   CONTINUE READING.... 

Daytime urges and lunch hour sex  At work, driving home, or alone at my computer–I need sex! I’m a 30 something swinger who must find creative ways to deal with her constant urges. I’ve heard stories of coworkers ducking away to the bathroom in pairs or having sex on their office desk after hours.   CONTINUE READING....

Does penis size matter? Yes.  I’ve met enough penises in my time to know that like lollipops, dicks come in all shapes and sizes. The fact is that most dicks are between five to seven inches erect; the real question is, does size matter?  CONTINUE READING....

Body modification can improve sex  Body modification is done for a variety of reasons: art, decoration, enhancement, change, and sometimes necessity. I’m a fan of all types of body art, piercing, and plastic surgery, but any modification can be over done.  CONTINUE READING....   

Becoming a swinger: one swinger’s story  I didn’t start my marriage as a swinger. I was married for more than a decade before we first couple swapped.   CONTINUE READING....