July 18, 2011

It's all in the kiss

When you first touch lips, the first taste of what the evening might be is sealed in that first kiss.

I have experienced a lot of first kisses. It's one of the big draws to the lifestyle. I get to feel that rush inside, the butterflies swirling around everytime I encounter someone new. How could that ever be considered bad?

The best kissers take it slow and gradually build into a passionate moment. They don't dive in and attempt to choke you with their tongue and they don't eat your lips off your face. I do love a little nibble on my lower lip, but if your teeth are chomping my mouth you should probably back off, a lot. Spoiling that first kiss sets up an evening of disaster in my book.

If you aren't 100% certain you are a fabulous kisser or just need to brush up on your skills I am happy to share the top secrets to having the best ever first kiss.

1. Start with your teeth freshly brushed (or at least just chewed some gum).  A foul mouth is a huge turn-off. 
2. Go in soft and slow with mouth closed.  No one wants to see a gaping mouth coming at their face.  
3. Hold her head, her face.  This move makes her know you are really into her, makes her feel warm. 
4. Suck on her lower lip softly.  Just a small suck, don't try .to pull her lip between your teeth. 
5. When using tongue, less is best - at least for the first kiss.  There is no need to touch her tonsils and remember it's not a tongue wrestling match - it's kissing. 
6. Alternate open mouth with closed.  This makes the kiss more sensual. 
7. Try not to smash on her face.  Beard rash isn't fun to cover up the next day. 

However you decide to approach your first kiss, make it the best ever.  You don't want to set your night up for failure.

Comments:

1 - As you lean in toward her if you can kiss her

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