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R ebecca Ammon
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June 21, 2011
How to have anal
sex Anal sex. The phrase makes many feel squimish. At this very moment you maybe squeezing your butt cheeks together thinking NO! For those who have never tried anal sex or for those who have and experienced it as something unpleasant I am here to explain how to do it the right way. Anal sex doesn't have to be taboo in your relationship, it doesn't have to be painful and doesn't mean that tomorrow you will be squeeling in pain as you spend your morning fifteen on the throne. Whether you are male or female, giving or receiving, my directions will be helpful and will hopefully lead to a fulfilling sexual experience. To begin, it's best if you are totally relaxed. Just the other night I was laying in bed with Soccer Dad and he was feeling amarous. I just started my period and didn't really feel in the mood. We spooned for awhile and he started rubbing my body. His hands were roaming about my body, my breasts, my nipples erect. Without a thought my mood quickly changed. His hands slid down the back of my pajama bottoms softly massaging my butt cheeks. Eventually he slid off my bottoms, my top and we were spooning naked. Playing with my clit he aroused me a bit more before moving back to my ass. He started by teasing my anus with his fingers. It was just enough to further arouse me and I began to push back on his hands. After graciously wetting me with lube he began completely fingering my asshole. This quickly moved onto to more. He could feel that I was already relaxed and decided to put his throbbing cock into my ass. Slowly at first and then with a little more force. There was no pain, no funky pressure, just a lot of pleasure. The key to anal sex is to take your time. Hurrying to get yourself inside someone's ass will only result in pain for them and most likely the sex will not last long for you. If you want to enjoy the experience make sure your partner is enjoying the experience as well. Lube, time, and compassion equals awesome anal sex!
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4 - There are many anal lube products on the market but never use
petroleum jelly or any oil based lubricants and use water based lubes such as K.Y. One of the best lubes
I use for great anal penetration is AnalEZ but of course there are other similar products you can use. To
use lubes effectively, first lube your penis well and put more on her asshole and try to let her take the first
initiative first by letting her push her asshole back on your penis until the head of your penis goes in past
her ass sphinctor then it is your task now to resume the thrusting start slowly at first and build up speed
until she feels comfortable of taking the whole length of your dick inside her. Happy Anal Day !
3 - Regarding lube, I've read about anal-ease and
other such products. Any experience with them? No experience, honestly I
just use plain old KY.
2 - You are right Rebecca. No hurry if you want to enjoy anal sex. I also advise the
guy rim your asshole and push his tongue inside your asshole first and keep licking your butthole before he
uses his finger to insert. He should start with one finger and then two fingers up to three fingers and should
use much lube. Then when your muscles are relaxed and you feel ready to open up I suggest you hold his
cock in your hand and push it inside slowly until it passes the sphinctor then he may proceed shoving it deep
inside. You should help him by pushing back to meet his thrusts. Let him cum inside your aashole the first time
so you can really enjoy anal sex and I am sure it will be part of your sex routine once done carefully and with
lot of lube at first.
1 - Do you have a favorite lube for anal sex? Anything wet and slippery!
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