July 12, 2011

Awkward moments after sex

It's been quite an evening of flirting, sexual innuendos, and finally the hookup.  Everyone seems to be having a good time.  But then after everyone is finished and it's time to get dressed what happens now?

I've encountered my own share of awkward after moments.  Some are fun to talk about while others are a bit on the shameful side.  

Very early in my swinging experience Soccer Dad and I were at the Pleasure Palace (now known as Eyz Wide Shut).  We were still a little on the shy side even though we had several encounters with couples before.  The club manager at the time noticed we were wondering around aimlessly and decided to help us out by introducing us to another couple.  We said hi to the nice looking young couple and then walked down the hall.  If you have never been in this club, it's has a long dark hall with windows and doors.  At that time you could leave the doors open for others to join you or watch.  Since the policy at the time was open doors we walked into directly into a room with two big mattresses.  The couple followed behind.  Both started kissing us without a word.

Quickly Soccer Dad and I were on our backs, pants being removed, skirt hiked up and oral sex performed on us.  The other couple didn't waste much time they soon dropped their pants (lifted her skirt) and away then went.  It was fast, furious and hot.  The whole event probably lasted less than 20 minutes.  We all finished, they got up, and out the door they went.  No one actually removed any clothing. 

This is what I describe an awkward after sex moment.  We both looked at each other with a 'what the heck just happened' look. 

Just last year we encountered another awkward moment which was brought on totally by me.  While I am first to say that I want to avoid drama I have been known to cause a wave or two.  It happens!  We were with a couple for the second time.  And although I wasn't thrilled with the prospect, Soccer Dad was really into her so I went along for the ride.  I mean how bad can it be - aside from his constant promotion of himself, the sex was ok the first time. 

This time things didn't start off right.  The couple argued whether we would get two rooms or one (the first time it was separate rooms).  We ended up with one room/one bed.  Soccer Dad and the woman picked the floor with some blankets and I was on the bed with Mr. Talkative.  We all had been going at it for a bit when I came to the realization that the situation sucked.  I didn't want to be having sex with this guy at all.  So at that point I decided I was done.  I pulled away from his lame effort to fuck me doggies style and announced I was ready to go home.  Everyone looked at me like I was crazy and she called me a bitch. 

We all got dressed very quietly and exited the room.  Needless to say we never spoke to that couple again. 

Swinging is about fun and excitement.  Our agreement is that we both must want to be with the couple we are with or not do it.  My mistake was making that decision a little late.  I don't plan on letting things go that far again when I'm not into a situation.  Future awkward situations avoided!

I'm quite certain I am not alone in the realm of awkward moments after swinger sex.  Please share yours below!

 Comments:

2 - We had a great hook-up, everyone seemed to enjoy and there seemed a four-way connection. I was definitely into the other woman, and she as bi, so that didnt suck. Quite frankly, I was barely to the salad when he asked for the check. She said, "I'm being greedy, I came already." With that, they were gone. We sent a note and got a positive response suggesting we'd all see each other again sometime. Since then our paths have crossed, but they have been distant-to-aloof (in both vanilla and LS situations). What's odd is, SHE has been the aloof one, when that night, she was anything but. We're just curious what happened, but don't care to begin drama by pushing it, so we just moved on... which is too bad, because they were GREAT!

1 - Our akward moment was our first experience... The other guy fell asleep on top of me (too much to drink I suppose) after talking himself all up. His wife was a lot of fun for both of us to play with but definitely won't encourage a second meet.

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