August 2009

Sexual statistics: what counts as a sex partner  On several occasions I’ve been asked how many sex partners I’ve had. Having lived as a swinger for several years, I’ve probably had more than most, but the exact number is tricky. It depends on what you count as a sex partner. For me, I can only define what one is, by describing what a sex partner is not.  CONTINUE READING....

How to please your woman  Let’s get one thing straight.  Every woman should be treated like a princess . Women need to be handled with care and respect. Speak to them honestly and avoid trying to be something you are not; we see right through that.   CONTINUE READING....  

No room for jealousy among swingers  When jealousy rears its ugly head during sex, nothing good will come of it. People enter the swinging lifestyle for different reasons. CONTINUE READING.... 

Dirty hot sex: a second try with a couple new to swapping  I just noticed that I have a bruise on my breast.  Does this mean the sex was really good or really bad? That all depends on what you like in bed. For me, my weekend sex, bruises and all, was pretty damn good.  CONTINUE READING....

Don’t be a high maintenace fuck buddy  It occurred to me recently that fuck buddies are high maintenance.  A fuck buddy can be someone you sleep with on occasion with no attachment, or it could be a couple you and your partner swap with now and again.  CONTINUE READING....

Did I get laid at the ‘Get Leid Party’?  The “Get Leid Party” Saturday night by Florida’s Finest Couples, was one to remember. I walked into a room full of grass skirts, bikini tops, and Hawaiian shirts.  CONTINUE READING....

Cash for chunkers: cheating never felt so cheap  I’ve schooled you in what constitutes an affair . I’ve listed the rules of having an affair and where to look for a discrete hook-up.  Now I’ll tell you how to save money in your search for that NSA(no strings attached) fuck.  CONTINUE READING....

Hair down there: it’s not for me (NSFW) Is your vagina cleanly shaved? Do you regularly go for the Brazilian wax? Maybe you trim your pubic hair regularly or let it grow wild like a little ecosystem around your penis. Whether you’re male or female, you must be aware of the pubic hair issue.   CONTINUE READING....

Rules of attraction: the art of affairs Not every marriage is open to multiple sexual partners like mine, but the  overwhelming desire to fuck someone other than your spouse is as common as arguments over whose turn it is to take out the trash.  CONTINUE READING....  

The peace sign as a symbol for random oral sex  I’m a frequent reader of secret blog sites.  I love knowing what other people are hiding, the secrets dieing to be told, and professing my own secrets from time to time.  I came across a particular secret, or maybe better described as a desire on a site called cavecanum .   CONTINUE READING....