September 13, 2011
5 Sex
Myths
Think you know everything about sex? Think again!
1. Men want sex far more than women
do. Ha! While many relationships become stale and the
intimacy stalls there are many more that are still fucking each others brains out regularly. The swinger
lifestyle is packed with women who love sex just as much if not more than many of the men I
know.
2. All men with small penises make up for it with their
oral sex skills. What? Who told you this was
true? Oral sex is like kissing - everyone has their own style. I might think you suck but another
will think your skills rock. It makes no difference if you have a big or small penis!
3. Surgically enhanced breasts are hard and
unnatural. Feel me up just one time and you will see this is a
total myth! The softness or hardness of an enhanced breasts is based on many factors. Each woman's
breasts will be different.
4. Men are always ready for sex. I wish
this statement were true, but if all men were ready for sex at a moments notice I wouldn't complain about
whiskey dick...ever. Men need to be warmed up just like women and the unfortunate nature of the male
anotomy is many external factors can affect it performance. Anxiety, alcohol, drugs, and even cold water
can prevent a man from reaching a full erection. The male penis is never reliable.
5. Most women orgasm through
intercourse. I'm not going to go on and on about this one because
anyone who's ever read any other articles on this topic practically has it written on their forehead
in permanent marker that only 30% of women orgasm from penetration alone. But since I like for everyone
to know everything it is worth repeating. Most women need stimulation of the clitoris by a hand or
a vibrator during intercourse in order to climax. It's not anyone's fault that the penis isn't enough; it's a
design fault in the female body. The clitoris is outside the vagina, rather than inside it (not terribly
helpful of whoever has the female body patent, I agree). Although some women claim to have fabulous orgasms through
front vaginal wall stimulation - the good old-fashioned clitoral orgasm is far more common and
reliable.
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Comments:
- Whiskey dick? Now this is a good place for the "stinger" to come into the scene. And when men reach a
certain age, which is younger/older for some than others start the delcline of testosterone production..
- I wish more women appreciated that men aren\'t hard all the time, no matter what. We get hard. We are hard.
We enjoy the journey, too.
- As a multi-faceted multiple orgasmic woman (and we ALL can be, ladies!!) I will agree that orgasm by
penetration alone is difficult to cum (pun intended) by, but they do exist! But, although I've studied male
anatomy, I can not easily sigh...t the
right penis. They don't seem to be bigger, or curved a certain way. In fact, upon observation, they seem rather
average. As do the men. But, the experiences DO exist. Thankfully we Ethical Sluts feel free to experiment.
Until then, our trusty clits and imaginations rule and satisfaction is ours.
- Rebecca, many thanks for this one and many others, as an older man, hit by
the prostate surgery and losing the power so to speak, another myth is the myth of no hard on. I remember an
elderly couple saying to me when we were in a support group,"there are hundreds of ways to get to the top of
the mountain" this was in a conversation about the myth of the hard on. We older guys and gals keep getting
sexier not less, that is a wonderful myth for me! and the truth! Thanks again sister. love and
peace.
- Funny. I always knew #5 was a lie, and I've always liked to give my
partner an orgasm by hand or oral stimulation before we go to intercourse. However, I haven't been able
to do so with my wife: She just doesn't cum if there's no intercourse...
- "It's a design fault in the female body"? It could be a design fault in the
man's body. I'm a man. I'm just saying. Also, I'm surprised at how many men are unaware of their own bodies. I
know exactly how much alcohol I can consume before whisky dick kicks in. For me, it's usually 2-3 beers or 2
servings of wine. After that, I transition to just regular coke or tonic/soda water. A good meal 3-4 hours
before action also makes a difference.
- I loved number 3 ! If only you could have said that to
me!
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