November 16, 2011

10 Mistakes
Women Make in Bed

I've been around enough women to know that we make mistakes too. Whether it's girl/girl or girl/guy the same rules should apply when getting busy. Gals: find out if you are doing some of these things that just drive men nuts (and not in a good way).

1. Trying to cover up/hide your body. Men love the female form. When their minds are in fucking mode they aren't judging your belly pudge, the size of your breasts or the cellulite on your thighs. Be confident with yourself and you will appear 1000 times sexier! 
2. Being too vocal. Men like to hear you are pleased, but all the screaming like a porn star is a bit much. Be yourself and be honest about pleasure. Otherwise you just look stupid. 
3. Being too quiet. If you don't make some sounds of pleasure your partner will wonder if you are alive. Let your partner know you are enjoying the moment. Direct them where to go and what feels good and at the same time let them know what you don't like. 
4. Lay there like a dead fish. Sex is a give and take event. Don't act like a pillow princess and expect your partner to do all the work. Get on top, fuck him back. 
5. Skipping foreplay. Unless you are fucking in the restroom at a truckstop, you have time for foreplay. No excuses. Its time for you to stop lying there and reciprocate some of the attention men give.  
6. Forgetting that an erect penis doesn't come out of garments easily. Take care how you handle it. It may not break, but it certainly doesn't feel good.  
7. Forgetting to shave before a date.  Most men would agree with the statement that pubic stubble sucks. Either let your hair grow a little more or shave right before the date. No one wants to be eating little balls of lint and he doesn't want vagina rash on his face!  
8. Throwing a fit when his dick won't work.  There are many reasons why a man cannot get a hard on.  I can guarantee you that if you are acting weird because he is having troubles it won't help the situation at all.  
9. Are you going to cum?  Prompting a man to hurry up and finish isn't making for much of a good time.  Maybe you need to make him feel more aroused so that you both can have that happy ending!  
10. Never initiating sex.  You complain that you don't get sex often enough, but when he initiates sex you say you are too tired.  Spring sex on him more often than not. Dress sexy - don't wear flannel pjs to bed every night.   

1. Ohhhh a big one to think about too......don't cry during or after sex!!!!!! Such a turn off and guaranteed way to turn a hard on soft!! 
2. I'd like to add that I think too many women are worried about dignity. Different positions and oral sex are not degrading. Facials are not degrading. Wanting to please is sexy, and the confidence knowing you can/are pleasing is hot. 
3. Thanks Rebecca, speaking for all men that is reading this - every woman should read!   
4. Thanks for the article! My wife suffers from a bit of lack of confidence about her sexuality and also she was taught poorly that sex was somehow dirty and a bit sinful. While she has basically loosened up on alot of that crappy upbringing she is still uptight about her body which for her age looks amazing and is really good in bed. She doesnt have much tollerance for long sex as she is sensitive down there but we find that lubricants work really well to ease that issue. I always wanted her to be more sexy in bed and wear provocative lingere etc. She just gets uptight about that, so I have sort of given up on that, we just get but naked under the covers to start. I love to give and recieve oral, but she is very self conscious when I go down on her and it is a rare occasion that she goes down on me. We somehow have had to compromise to make it work, and when it works we really enjoy each other. Yea, like you said in your article it would be nice if she loosened up and initiated, but that's her perrogative. Thanks again.
   

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